Ethiopia is one of the few countries where a handful of words genuinely changes your trip. Not because you need them — English will carry you through Addis and any hotel — but because the response to a foreigner attempting Amharic is so disproportionately warm that it feels like a trick. Learn ten phrases on the flight and you will spend two weeks being told, with obvious delight, that your Amharic is excellent. It will not be. Say them anyway.

Key facts

Script
Ge'ez (fidel) — 200+ characters, syllabic
The one word to learn
ሰላም — selam (hello, peace, goodbye)
Thank you
አመሰግናለሁ — ameseginalehu
Gendered verbs
Endings change for men (-h) and women (-sh)
English reach
Widely spoken in Addis, thin in rural areas
Other languages
Oromo, Tigrinya, Somali, Afar + 80 more

Start with these five

If you learn nothing else, learn these. They cover perhaps eighty percent of the moments that matter.

  • ሰላምselam — hello / peace / goodbye. Universal, all ages, all situations.
  • አመሰግናለሁameseginalehu — thank you. A mouthful; worth the effort. Short version: እgziabher yistilign ("God repay you") is warmer still.
  • ይቅርታyiqirta — sorry / excuse me. Also how you get past someone in a crowd.
  • እሺeshi — OK / fine / agreed. You will hear this constantly; use it constantly.
  • አይ፣ አመሰግናለሁay, ameseginalehu — no, thank you. Said with a smile, it closes almost any sales approach.

Greetings, and the gender rule

Amharic changes verb endings by gender and seniority. The pattern is simple once seen:

  • ደህና ነህ?dehna neh? — how are you? (to a man)
  • ደህና ነሽ?dehna nesh? — (to a woman)
  • ደህና ኖት?dehna not? — (to an elder or in formal respect)
  • ደህና ነኝdehna negn — I'm fine (the answer, always)
  • እንደምን አደርክ / አደርሽindemin aderk / adersh — good morning (m/f)

-h for men, -sh for women, -ot for respect. When in doubt use -ot. Greetings in Ethiopia are not a formality to rush — expect a full exchange of "how are you / how is the family / how did you sleep" before any business begins. Cutting it short is the actual rudeness, not mispronunciation.

Greetings are not a formality to rush — they are the transaction before the transaction
Greetings are not a formality to rush — they are the transaction before the transaction

Money and markets

  • ስንት ነው?sint new? — how much is it?
  • ውድ ነውwud new — it's expensive. The opening move, said cheerfully.
  • ቀንስልኝqenslign — reduce it for me. The polite bargaining verb.
  • የመጨረሻ ዋጋ?yemecheresha waga? — last price?
  • አልፈልግምalfeligim — I don't want it. Firm, not rude.
  • ብርbirr — the currency. Numbers: and (1), hulet (2), sost (3), arat (4), ammist (5), siddist (6), sebat (7), simmint (8), zeteñ (9), asir (10), meto (100), shi (1,000).

Bargaining is expected in markets and with taxis, not in restaurants, hotels or shops with marked prices. A ride-hailing app removes the negotiation entirely, which is often worth more than the sport of it.

Food and coffee

  • ቡናbuna — coffee. The most useful noun in the language.
  • ውሃwuha — water. Yatashagera wuha — bottled water.
  • ጾም ነውtsom new — it's fasting (i.e. vegan). Say this to be served the vegetarian platter — the single most useful phrase for vegetarians in Ethiopia.
  • ሥጋ የለምsiga yelem — no meat.
  • ጣፋጭ ነውtafach new — it's delicious. Deploy generously; it is always well received.
  • በቃኝbekagn — I've had enough. You will need this. Ethiopian hospitality does not accept a full plate as an argument.
  • ሂሳብhisab — the bill.

Tsom new deserves emphasis: because Orthodox fasting excludes all animal products, "fasting food" is accidentally the best vegan cuisine in Africa, and every restaurant understands the request. See our food guide.

Getting around

  • የት ነው?yet new? — where is it?
  • ወዴት?wedet? — where to? (what a driver asks you)
  • እዚህ አቁምizih aqum — stop here.
  • ቀጥታqetita — straight on. ግራ gira (left), ቀኝ qegn (right).
  • መጸዳጃ ቤት የት ነው?metsedaja bet yet new? — where is the toilet?
  • አልገባኝምalgebagnim — I don't understand.
  • እንግሊዝኛ ትችላለህ?English tichilaleh? — do you speak English?

Words you will hear aimed at you

ፈረንጅferenj — foreigner. From "Frank", a crusader-era word. It is almost never hostile; children shout it with delight. Responding with selam! rather than irritation turns it into a nice moment.

አይዞህ / አይዞሽayzoh / ayzosh — "be strong, take heart" (m/f). Said constantly, for everything from a stumble to a bereavement. One of the loveliest words in the language.

ቆይqoy — wait. na — come. ተውtew — stop it / leave it, useful for persistent touts.

Three notes on the script

Amharic is written in fidel, the Ge'ez syllabary: each of 33 base characters has seven vowel forms, giving 230-odd symbols. You will not learn it in a fortnight, and you do not need to — but recognising a handful (ቡና for coffee, ሆቴል for hotel, ባንክ for bank) makes signage suddenly legible.

Note too that Ethiopia runs on its own calendar and clock — the year is seven or eight behind, and the day starts at dawn, so "three o'clock" locally means nine in the morning. That single fact prevents more missed appointments than any phrase on this page.

Finally: pronunciation is forgiving, but Amharic has ejective consonants (the q in qegn, the ts in tsom) that have no English equivalent. Approximate them confidently. Nobody is grading you, and everybody is on your side.

Frequently asked questions

Do I need Amharic to travel in Ethiopia?
No — English is widely spoken in Addis Ababa, in hotels, and by anyone working in tourism. But 'need' is the wrong measure. Ethiopia is a country where effort is noticed and rewarded disproportionately: three words of Amharic will change the temperature of an interaction more than in almost any other country. Outside the capital, and particularly with older people and in markets, a small vocabulary stops being charming and starts being genuinely useful.
Why do words change depending on who I'm talking to?
Amharic marks gender and formality in the verb ending, so 'how are you?' is dehna neh? to a man, dehna nesh? to a woman, and dehna not? to someone older or senior. Getting it wrong is not offensive — you will be corrected cheerfully — but getting it right is noticed immediately. The quick rule: -h for men, -sh for women, -ot for respect. When unsure, use the respectful form; nobody has ever been annoyed by too much courtesy.
Is Amharic spoken everywhere in Ethiopia?
It is the federal working language and understood in most towns, but Ethiopia has more than eighty languages and Amharic is the first language of a minority. Oromo (Afaan Oromoo) has the most speakers; Tigrinya dominates the north; Somali and Afar the east and northeast. In Oromia and Tigray, opening in Amharic can occasionally carry political weight — a warm selam is always safe, and learning the local greeting (akkam? in Oromo, selam in Tigrinya too) is a small courtesy that lands well.